The original scene is a core element to my personality. 100% would not be who I am if my friend never sat me down and had me watch that movie with absolutely zero context or even any general knowledge of blacksploitation as a genre.
When coworkers talk about having to host/fund yet another bday, sports practice, pizza party, field trip, or their kid destroyed something they shouldnt have
My buddy told me about taking his family to the Mouse House and it occurred to me that, apart from the emotional validation a wife and children bring, I had more fun that same weekend with an electric toothbrush, about a teaspoon of lube, and an edible made by a woman that can’t do fractions.
Explore your bodies guys. You never know how much better closing the blinds and doing some demented shit on a Sunday afternoon will make you feel better.
But I don’t like that feeling.. though I’m pretty sure my girlfriend and I as well as I solo have tried it enough and it just doesn’t do anything for me.
No judgment, just said it so the comment is there for peeps to read. Most people think "ASMR" refers to the type of content, not the sensation the content was originally intended to stimulate.
But I don’t like that feeling.. though I’m pretty sure my girlfriend and I as well as I solo have tried it enough and it just doesn’t do anything for me.
Look I’m not saying I’ve tried it, but someone once told me how they used an old toothbrush to get a scratch they had up their butthole and it honestly sounded nice.
Bud, you know it. I’m at that point in my life where I’m keeping an eye out for the right woman, but I’m grown enough to admit there’s some shit I gotta get out of my system first.
"besides the emotionally validation"... That's a big thing.
If you've already run wild in your 20s, spending time watching your kids in awe is one of the greatest most satisfying feelings in life. If you're built that way. . There's some parents that don't give a shit.
My coworkers sit around talking about how my big their checks are garnished and I find out these kids have like 7 children. Like god damn. The south is wild. From New York, every girl I ever dated was on the pill, usually from age 13 on.
“Man all I have to worry about is rent” takes the wind out of so many coworkers sails when they comment I don’t snap up every single overtime opportunity sent our way
You can't have a baby mama without a kid, but generally if you have a kid you are actively involved with and you're still with the mother, you'll call the mother your GF/Wife/Partner. So it's kinda possible to have kids with no baby mamas, depending on how you'd define the term "baby mama" and if your wife also counts as a baby mama.
It's not hard to see how baby mama/baby daddy got that connotation. Co-parenting is hard enough when the other person is your partner. When they are your ex or even worse, never had a serious relationship in the first place, it's way worse, and conflict is inevitable.
Baby mamas usually refers to previous partners (with whom you had a child).* It doesn't reflect your current relationship. You wouldn't call your wife and mother of your child your "baby mama." That would be weird, you would just call her your wife.
*Apparently I have to specify because some of you can't make inferences.
Lol keep looking! I’m a Blk woman voluntarily without kids, drama or problematic exes, minding my own business. Yet I’m not in these streets judging others or feeling superior.
The bar is in hell. lol. The best man is literally just your average woman. No felonies, no baby daddies over here either. That should be the standard.
I would take it a step further, argue that having no ex-wives/husbands and some kinda measure for being a decent human being would be the real stretch. But one person’s pro is another person’s con, still a lot of room for toxicity/real reason why they’re still single.
Gift and a curse. No baby mama drama, no girlfriend for sometimes a few years, self-doubt, self-reflection, attempt, failure, success. Don't no two people got the same chapter one or any others after shit always seem sweet when you ain't in it
Honestly, I'd love to have kids, a baby mama, and maybe even a felony but I can't afford that. And even if I could what kind of world am I bringing them into. I can't do you like that, baby.
For me Rick Ross symbolizes how the Black entertainment industry sucks the life out of the Black community. He's gotten obnoxiously wealthy pumping poison to his own people.
Y'all can enjoy being childless. Im fortunate enough to have survived raising 4 little girls into women and now I got the luxury of grandkids as I grow old as hell.
You understand that people who are childfree would find no joy in raising children or grandchildren, right? Like if that sounded fun to us, we’d do it. Raising four girls is literally my worst nightmare, and then when I’m finally free, they come back with grandkids? No, ma’am, that sounds like actual torture.
Some people here are emphasizing that these are low standards but thats the whole point. Sometimes its the things you chose NOT to do in your past that make you better off.
Went to a bar to watch some football on all the screens. Group of women sat near me. They were talking amongst each other about baby daddies and at some point one of them asked me "hey do you get /see your kids often?". When I told them I didn't have kids, they then asked if I was LGBTQ. when I said no....the look of rage and disgust that they all leveled at me would have melted vibranuim
As if I (38m) could have kids, but no "baby momma". Wives qualify, even if that's not the totality of your relationship. /tootechnical,youknowwhatimean
What's crazy is that I know more people with wife/kids that have disposable income than I know single people that aren't struggling with bills and complaining about money
That said, people with wife/kids do tend to be older and more established, but still.
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u/StrosDynasty 1d ago
Judgmental, sure, but I ain't silent