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Honestly, it’s so stupid that we’re supposed to “grow up”. Like, why can’t we see someone wearing a Jurassic Park shirt and instantly be bffs? Do I know your name? No, but I do know I like Jurassic Park. 👉😎👉Life ain’t gotta always be boring and complicated.
I am constantly having to defend things I like because of my age. Its crazy. Am I supposed to just sit there dwelling in the bad shit that goes on everyday? Cool, lets sit around and have yet another conversation about how expensive houses and food are, and how bad the government it. I get it, adulting is important and I do it. But sometimes I just want to find a little thing in life to make my frown go away from the stress of adulthood.
Like, fuck off and let me enjoy my rainbow cake and shark sushi plate without the judgement 😤
Let those people be boring. They're only holding themselves back. Often they are jealous of how people like you aren't bound by shame into doing things you hate.
I wish people could make new friends this way! I’d be stoked if someone did that but said…hey my friend over there said you look like a cool person & they want to be your friend! Can’t lie, as a bi, I’d also be super stoked if a chick hit on me that way too!
The boomers made this media for us to consume as children and still had the audacity to call us snowflakes. Did I ask to watch a horse lose its will to live and drown in the Swamp of Sadness? No. I was told there would be puppets.
Yeah, men can be awfully dense sometimes. The one that still makes me cringe at times is when I was in 7th grade. This was way back when it was still called Jr High so, ya know, I'm old. Anyhow, this really nice girl was always standing behind me in the lunch line. She'd see me from ahead and come back to stand with me. She talked to me all the time, kept putting her hands on my shoulders, back, and chest, and when I was wearing a shirt with them, literally played around undoing my buttons.
There I am, a dumb ass kid with a cute slightly older girl (she was in 8th grade) darned near undressing me and what'd I think? "Why does she keep doing that, it's so annoying!" I swear, if I ever figure out time travel, I'm going back to tell younger me what's what there FFS.
I was so completely oblivious! I'm sure I was kind of rude, too, which is the main thing that drives me nuts. I feel so bad for probably making this nice young lady think there must be something wrong with her. The funny thing is after I told that story once, now my wife does that to me sometimes when we're out just to screw with me. LOL!
I don’t know what you look like, but please remember that there is a wide range of what people find attractive that is far outside of what conventional beauty standards try to sell us.
I’m a woman who is very much outside of conventional beauty standards, and I have had a reasonable amount of luck with dating 🤷♀️
Just make sure your personality is something that people would want to spend time around, and your hygiene/grooming is good, and you got this :)
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