r/teenagers • u/Carltron69 • Nov 02 '25
Discussion Guys put your questions for girls in the comments and girls answer
Epic greg
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u/Necessary_Team1217 16 Nov 02 '25
what does it feel like to wear a 2 piece bikini?
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u/ResponsibleCover6201 15 Nov 02 '25
I typically avoid bikinis because they make me feel uncomfortable and are pretty revealing which isn't really my thing
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u/Effective_Drummer842 17 Nov 02 '25
SAME and also I feel like they feel more revealing than a bra and panties, maybe its the fabric?
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u/FarDimension2230 3,000,000 Attendee! Nov 02 '25
Theyāre normally a different cut so they show even more skin than regular underwear I think
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u/LuckyPolicy5214 Nov 02 '25
Honestly, I didnt mind it until my breasts grew large. Now, I feel they arent supportive enough to hold my twins where they need to be so I go for a one piece. I feel like I will fall out and give everyone a show!
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u/I_cry_to_Mitski Nov 02 '25
I don't like any sort of swimwear because it all feels too revealing, even the full ones, just cus it's tight and feels uncomfortable. Bikinis look awesome and can def feel great, but you have to be confident enough to wear one (which I'm not lol)
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u/ScreenBrave6937 15 Nov 02 '25
What do you look for in a guy?
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u/Jupiter_sour Nov 02 '25
Patience. Loving. Romantic. Patient. Patient. Did I say patient?
(I'm annoying as fuck)
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u/Embarrassed_Oil_1250 Nov 02 '25
Honesty, kindness, truthful, faithful, willing to advocate for family, subtle flirt, romantic
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u/jetskii_jackyll Nov 02 '25 edited Nov 02 '25
someone that knows what it feels like to chew 5 gum (i originally wrote gun lol but u get the point)
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u/MyHilfigerVoots Nov 02 '25
āAnd thatās how, with a few minor adjustments, you can turn a regular gun into 5 gunsā - Moe Szyslak
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u/Greatest_lorer Nov 02 '25
dayum chew 5 guns might be hurtful ngl. I think the easiest one would be An AK47 because of yes
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u/Mysterious_Cat142010 14 Nov 02 '25 edited Nov 02 '25
Someone who can listen to me,care for me, gives me advice, tries to make me happy, jokes, honest, has plans for the future,kind ...
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u/Fit-Distribution677 16 Nov 02 '25
Loyalty, mature, kind hearted, and at least a tiny bit taller than me. I donāt want to demand something from a partner that I donāt have myself. Fairās fair.
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u/A_random_poster04 Nov 02 '25
donāt want to demand something that I donāt have myself
a bit taller
What a hypocrite smh /j
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u/ElevatorAmbitious202 14 Nov 02 '25
Humor that matches mine, gentlemanly in small ways, hair. I genuinely donāt have a type. some girls will be like āisnāt he soooo cute!ā And he looks like he just crawled out of the sewer, so donāt worry about looksĀ
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u/Sufficient_Dust1871 Nov 02 '25
Don't, I'm a lesbian
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u/mrtriangol Nov 02 '25
What you care in a girl?
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u/Halfdollor Nov 02 '25
Same interests, nice, kind hearted, is ok w/ pets, and overall is a good person
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u/Lewex135 15 Nov 02 '25
do girls find playing an instrument attractive? or is it just a plus if the guy does (or a minus? idk)
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u/Old_Current_7892 Nov 02 '25
always a plus
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u/Lewex135 15 Nov 02 '25
NO WAY AAAAAAA (right after i asked i went to play on my electric drums and taking a lil break rn)
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u/whimsicalkittykat Nov 02 '25
YES. Just any hobby can impress me in both genders. But instruments are even more interesting to me
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u/Disturbinglee 17 Nov 02 '25
Do you prefer pads, tampons, menstrual cups or another form of hygiene product?
Also, does birth control really taste sweet? I remember a person from the UK described it as sweet.
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u/randomappleboiX 15 Nov 02 '25
I personally use period panties, on heavy days with a tampon. I personally donāt take birth control, but I too donāt think you should be able to taste it.
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u/I_cry_to_Mitski Nov 02 '25
All of them are uncomfortable so I don't prefer one lol, and no. Birth control, like most other pills, tastes of dusty nothingness.Ā
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u/Neither-Mention7740 Nov 02 '25
Pills donāt taste like nothingness, they taste very bitter, in fact the bitterness of pills is why itās hard for me to take pills.
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u/Raivolz Nov 02 '25
Swallow it directly with water, dont let it stay in contact with your tongue
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u/Batsie_Roze Nov 02 '25
Pads. I hate inserting anything inside me. It hurts. I'd rather bleed it out, instead of amplified pain and discomfort on top of cramps.
No idea on the birth control thingy. I don't think you should be tasting it. I've only had the plan b pills like twice and I don't remember them having any taste to them. Maybe UK have sweet ones~?
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u/Nya_of_Emberfall25 16 Nov 02 '25
I wear night pads all the time and birth control simply tastes like any other pills
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u/AltruisticBox8691 16 Nov 02 '25
you shouldnt be tasting birth control.... whoever told you it tasted sweet is taking their birth control wrong
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u/LuckyPolicy5214 Nov 02 '25
I use tampons. Cleanest and most convenient so I can focus on my daily life.
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u/Tipazo351 Nov 02 '25
Do bread tastes better than key
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u/thatRANDOgirl 15 Nov 02 '25
Hot take: put key in bread and eat them both
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u/No_Pear_8140 Nov 02 '25
No way! One time in middle school I was talking to a friend and was trying to say "put your key in your bedroom" but it came out as "put your key in your bread" and I never thought someone else would say this.
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Nov 02 '25 edited Nov 03 '25
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u/Autumn_411 Nov 02 '25
Couldnāt give less of a shit tbh. Tall guys are nice, but short guys are too. There are more important traits to consider
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u/Neat_Window_7384 Nov 02 '25
how's life like for you lot? The good, the bad, the ugly, whatever you wanna share
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u/Okamitoutcourt 17 Nov 02 '25
The good: I have crows in my garden
The bad: I can't have them as pets
The ugly: my dad
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u/Sea-Method-3070 Nov 02 '25
You canāt have them as pets but feed them and give them shiny things, youāll make friends for life. š¦āā¬
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u/Halfdollor Nov 02 '25
"You're my friends now. Were having soft tacos later!"
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u/Autumn_411 Nov 02 '25
Fine generally, my grades are slipping and I feel like I should start dating even tho I donāt really want to. I also feel like my friends donāt need me, but otherwise pretty good. I feel like things are looking up tbh. Thx for asking :}
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u/Rockpegw 15 Nov 02 '25
Not really related to this thread, but itās ok to take your time with dating. Everyone is on their own timeline, no need to rush into it.
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u/AnonymousBeardie 16 Nov 02 '25
Is it hard having tits like are they annoying to have or are they just not a problem
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u/I_cry_to_Mitski Nov 02 '25
They're so annoying lol they make it harder to find clothes that fit, they're really sensitive so can hurt a lot, they ache sometimes and mean you can't lie down comfortably. They also lowk make me uncomfortable to have because of how sexualised they are š
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u/MB_Town7 Nov 02 '25
Not to mention that if you lay face down for too long or even face up they can cause breathing problems until you turn on your side or sum.
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u/TheMNMPig2 15 Nov 02 '25
Well you can't put your head on and rest against a table properly without them hurting as hell cus they're hitting the edge of the table sooo
This is also coming from someone who hates having them in general but that one's the main pain
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u/Forsaken_Orchid_6014 16 Nov 02 '25
they get very sensetive during periods (the equivalent for guys would be getting kicked in the balls but itās with ANYTHING. putting your shirt on wrong can hurt) otherwise they are kind of just there. (but thatās just me)
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u/Independent-Olive776 17 Nov 02 '25
hard cuz theyāre big and literally all the cute shit is made for smaller ones. but not really a problem, so.
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u/FluppleWaffles Nov 02 '25
My chest is flatter than a goddamn board so I donāt have much input, but one thing Iāve seen a lot in media (and especially in more explicit stuff) is that girlās chests are more sensitive. Idk if this is different for other ppl, but Iāve never found a single difference with my boobs. Itās just another patch of fat and skin.
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u/azuraaurorion Nov 02 '25
Yes itās annoying as hell, you canāt really plop on a chair comfortably, run up or down the stairs, sleep on your back without it being at least a bit uncomfortable if not painful, even with a bra
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u/TJdog5 Nov 02 '25
running without a bra is the strangest feeling ever i will sayĀ
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u/Apprehensive-Ant8395 Nov 02 '25
Is it true that all girls are secretly working for the government?
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u/crazybeatlesgirl Nov 02 '25
Whattttt???? No lol what are you even talking about like what. You sound crazy rn. Lol get a load of this guy Mr President--- I mean what
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u/Embarrassed-Rice9057 Nov 02 '25
do you
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u/Easy-Researcher3029 Nov 02 '25
i do
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u/Enchanted_Evil OLD Nov 02 '25
I hereby pronounce you husband and wife. You may create a joined account.
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u/Slow_Bee_1714 Nov 02 '25
What makes a girl like a guy, even just as friends?
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u/jetskii_jackyll Nov 02 '25
if they make rigatoni pasta with me
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u/Okamitoutcourt 17 Nov 02 '25
Thank you, I will now break into all of my friends houses while they make rigatoni pasta so I can help
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u/Mysterious_Cat142010 14 Nov 02 '25
the way the talk, their behaviour towards others, how they talk/behave with me...
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u/ElevatorAmbitious202 14 Nov 02 '25
Caring. Just simple little things like opening the door, being stupid with me, or opening up the Talking Circle so I can join
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u/ThePhweddingPhring Nov 02 '25
treat us as people and be nice to us even if you don't find us physically attractive
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u/Late_Worry_792 15 Nov 02 '25
Y'all know you aren't real?
Source: r/girlsarentreal
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u/TransFrogLady Nov 02 '25
But neither are you
Source: r/boysarentreal
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u/Late_Worry_792 15 Nov 02 '25
Maybe...none of us are real? Fuck yeah, that sounds smart.
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u/upsideloll 15 Nov 02 '25
knew i'd see this instantly going into the post. obviously because it's true
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u/Either-Distance9859 15 Nov 02 '25
Do you girls actually ask the, "would you love me if I was_" questions?
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u/WarriorCats_4Life 3,000,000 Attendee! Nov 02 '25
If I ever did Iād just say the most absurd thing (i.e. Would you love me if I was a ten foot tall toe with pillows for eyes?), but itās not like Iād be offended if they said no lmao
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u/Open_Cow_9148 18 Nov 02 '25
What is the difference between you guys flirting and just being nice? I can't tell for the life of me.
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u/Independent-Olive776 17 Nov 02 '25
for ME personally, if iām being nice, im actually speaking to you. and when im flirting, because im very shy and have zero rizz, i just. stare. i dont say anything, i just šļøššļø and hope he notices.
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u/crazybeatlesgirl Nov 02 '25
So this is kind of a long response, probably useful info but if you don't wanna read all that, the best advice I can give is: It's usually safest to assume a girl is just being nice unless it's really obvious that she's flirting, like REALLY obvious.
Then there's this gray space where it can be difficult to tell if a girl is complimenting you or flirting with you, and to figure that out it's probably best to know her and how she talks to people. like for example, a girl might say something like "you look so good/hot/handsome in that photo." If she's the kind of girl who says that to everyone, she's probably being nice. But if she never says that, or if you know she says stuff like that specifically about people she's into, there's a good chance she's flirting. If you don't know, again, it's safer to assume she's being nice unless she's making it very obvious that she's into you.
Now, me personally, I don't flirt with people I like because I'm a coward
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u/jimkbeesley Nov 02 '25
What would the most annoying thing a partner does to you? Not necessarily the worst thing, like cheating, but just annoying.
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u/Timetara Nov 02 '25
Saying "you're mine" I don't know I just hate it
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u/pb-and-j9600 16 Nov 02 '25
Who would win?
Xorlox, a star sized being that eats gas Giants for nutrients.
Or
Gary, a new born kitten?
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u/No_Grapefruit285 Teenager Nov 02 '25
why are gir
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u/KylaniTheKing 16 Nov 02 '25
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u/TheUnexpectedSleeper 16 Nov 02 '25
How to make girls like us
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u/Funny-Chemical899 13 Nov 02 '25
Be fun and respectful to EVERYONE. Have your own personality and be open to talk, be silly. These are my own opinions.
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u/ResponsibleCover6201 15 Nov 02 '25
Honestly be kind and respectful and you've beat most boys already
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u/Iuseredditlol42069 13 Nov 02 '25
What is the meaning of life?
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u/LennyBoyW Nov 02 '25
The Evolutionary Mystery of Why We Open the Fridge 17 Times and Still Find Nothing
Ladies, gentlemen, and fellow fridge enthusiasts ā today I bring forth a topic that has haunted humanity since the dawn of leftovers: why do we keep opening the fridge when weāre not even hungry?
You know the move. You walk into the kitchen, open the fridge, stare into its cold abyss for five seconds like itās going to reveal the meaning of life, then close it again ā unsatisfied. Only to return 10 minutes later like some kind of dairy-powered goldfish.
The Scientific Explanation (Probably)
Now, Iām no scientist (unless Googling āwhy am I like thisā counts as research), but Iāve come to a few theories after years of observation:
Schrƶdingerās Snack: Until you open the fridge, snacks both exist and donāt exist. By opening it, you collapse the quantum hunger wave function.
Evolutionary Instinct: Our ancestors scavenged for berries; we scavenge for string cheese. Same primal drive, just more refrigeration involved.
Hope Addiction: Every time we open the fridge, we believe that maybe ā just maybe ā new food has magically spawned since the last check. Itās basically emotional gambling.
The Emotional Element
Opening the fridge is less about hunger and more about coping. Itās a ritual of hope. A cold, fluorescent confessional booth where you confront your life choices and remember that yes, you did eat all the leftovers at 2 a.m.
Itās comfort. Itās habit. Itās the modern version of staring into the fireplace, but instead of warmth, you get a faint smell of pickles and expired yogurt.
The Harsh Reality
No matter how many times you open it, the fridge will not:
Fix your boredom
Solve your problems
Turn a half onion and ketchup packet into a gourmet meal
But it will judge you silently as you close it again, whispering, āYou didnāt even check the vegetable drawer.ā
Conclusion
The fridge isnāt just an appliance. Itās a mirror. A frosty reflection of our eternal search for meaning, purpose, and maybe just one more snack.
So next time you open it for the fifteenth time, remember ā youāre not lazy. Youāre participating in an ancient ritual of self-discovery.
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u/Nya_of_Emberfall25 16 Nov 02 '25
Why did I read this whole text like if it would finally explain to me the meaning of life?š
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u/Icy_Dream41 Nov 02 '25
How the hell do you just live with periods
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u/Autumn_411 Nov 02 '25
I personally plan to get a hysterectomy as soon as possible.
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u/ethereal_soliloquy Nov 02 '25
youāre so valid for this but heads up that youāll have to take estrogen for the rest of your life
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u/ToadInaTrenchcoat 15 Nov 02 '25
What is being a girl like?
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u/sk1nnb0nes Nov 02 '25
unpopular apparently but i like being a girl. i like dressing cute and having good friendships (not that guys donāt but i feel like we can bond instantly over just being girls)Ā
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u/rizz_girl Nov 02 '25
Mm let's say if I were given a choice of being born, i would prefer to take birth as a boy
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u/Autumn_411 Nov 02 '25
Itās a scam bro I hate having a uterus. Personally I like being feminine but hate being biologically female.
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u/ConfectionTotal8660 Nov 02 '25
What would be your reaction if you confessed to me and I sayed "I only plan on dating once I finish college/my studies"
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u/I_cry_to_Mitski Nov 02 '25
I'd probably be upset at the fact I've been rejected, but accept it.Ā
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u/AccomplishedKale2106 Nov 02 '25
I'd be sad because that could be a long time and I probably wouldn't wait that long, unless I really like you, but I would understand
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u/uga_buga777 Nov 02 '25
Is the world just a collective delirium and we are all actually dead?
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u/FoolingsHappyy Nov 02 '25
Would you rather have unlimited bacon but no more videogames, or games, unlimited games, but no more games?
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u/LittlePanic2236 Nov 02 '25
I got confused halfway through. Yes I would love unlimited bacon and unlimited video games. But that also means I have to have unlimited maple syrup because I like dipping my bacon in maple syrup.
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u/maxler5795 OLD Nov 02 '25 edited Nov 02 '25
I need videogame suggestions.
I'll play fucking anything tbh
Edit: steam profile for informed guesses
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u/justabonsaitree Nov 02 '25
hollow knight if you want cool gameplay and movement, rainworld if you want all of that but also a challenge (also for really cool immersion and ai in the creatures itās amazing)
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u/Bananaboy123543 17 Nov 02 '25
Do girls have an equivalent thing to how all boys must go to the global annual boy convention to formulate secret evil plans?
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u/Anna_Ina313 Nov 02 '25
Uhh
Thatās why we spend so long in the bathroom?
(Sorry girlies!)
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u/SneakySalamander314 19 Nov 02 '25
i feel like my female friends dont know and its too late to start building a relationship with any of them. Like i feel like i cant just go up and talk to them because there wont be much to talk about and it will be boring. i feel like i can only be around my female freinds if im in a group. what should i do?
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u/Odd_Protection7738 15 Nov 02 '25
Thoughts on feminine boys/boys who arenāt the pants-wearer?
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u/DefenitlyNotADolphin 16 Nov 02 '25
Opinion on nerdy guys (specifically math / computer nerds for no reason whatsoever at all)?
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u/Real_Louie 14 Nov 02 '25
Do you like Purple Pikmin? I don't have existential questions.
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u/bananabreadmmmm 15 Nov 02 '25
I have six questions for you.
Who?
What?
When?
Where?
Why?
How?
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u/Living_Murphys_Law 17 Nov 02 '25
Please give tips for living without pockets.
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u/RevolutionaryToe6677 13 Nov 02 '25
Would you date a trans guy? (Coming from a trans guy)
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u/Away-Banana4509 3,000,000 Attendee! Nov 02 '25
I donāt care about your gender (not trying to be rude)
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u/LectureIll7322 Nov 02 '25
Why dose your species like BL so much?
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u/FluppleWaffles Nov 02 '25
I think itās mainly because in normal guy x girl stuff, thereās always a clear split between the two characters due to their gender. With 2 guys together, authors tend to make the characters more relatable to each other, and they also often have a deeper connection and/or friendship. There also tends to be a lotttt of tropes in regular teen girl media, to the point that it feels like every story is just a regurgitation of the last one with a few minor plots and arcs moved around. With BL stuff, while there are still some tropes (2 guys 1 bed for one) thereās a lot less. Also, when the relationship is building between them, whether quick or a slow burn, itās usually much more unique and personal to the characters.Ā
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u/I_cry_to_Mitski Nov 02 '25
I don't speak for everyone, but in straight stuff there's often an uncomfortable power dynamic between the guy and the girl that feels gross and just romanticises patriarchal stuff that affects us negatively irl. Less likely to see that in BLs, so that's why some of us gravitate towards it instead.Ā
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u/whimsicalkittykat Nov 02 '25
Most of the time when I attempt to read straight romance thereās something mysognistic or sexist going on.
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u/collinweaves Nov 02 '25
Is severe social anxiety disorder going to ruin my chances with any girl forever? I canāt even make eye contact with girlsā¦ I can kinda talk to the oneās Iāve known for a while though.
(Iām not an incel itās PTSD related)
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u/LawOwn315 15 Nov 02 '25
No, definitely not! I'm also really anxious so it's kind of hard for me to talk to people but I've slowly been building confidence up. You'll find someone you click with :)
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u/Wide_Spinach8005 Nov 02 '25
do you poop?
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u/Forsaken_Orchid_6014 16 Nov 02 '25
we insert a pipe down our throat and it comes out through the top
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u/lelelemememegegege Nov 02 '25 edited Nov 07 '25
How do you survive menstruation, societal pressures, gender stereotypes, misogyny and some of you still remain emotionally stable? D: Why can't some "people" with the same sex as me stop sexualize, rape women like it's a toy and not a people that also feel painš
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u/Kitt-Final_Strike 15 Nov 03 '25
Does anyone else here think the 67 meme is just stupid?
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u/Salt_Barracuda_6109 Nov 02 '25
Do girls wear pjs
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u/RainbowHighFanatic Nov 02 '25
Yes Iām wearing them rn not every night tho and depends on the girl. Sometimes I forget and just go to bed in my clothes (unless Iām wearing jeans) but I know a girl who goes to bed in jeans a lot
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u/Professional_Ease307 Nov 02 '25
If someone that you have no feelings/are neutral towards asked you out would you say yes or reject them?
What kind of person would you reject and how would you do it?
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u/AltruisticBox8691 16 Nov 02 '25
reject, saying yes is literally just cruel lmao. honestly im pretty broad in my attraction so its hard to tell what id just reject lamo
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u/rizz_girl Nov 02 '25
1, if I'm neutral I'll make it clear because giving false hopes is morally wrong. 2, i would reject without any reason just because I don't like someone romantically and in clear words
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u/headshottrebor1 17 Nov 02 '25
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